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LPGA Tour pro Mel Reid comes out as gay, calls for openness and inclusivity in golf
LPGA and LET professional Mel Reid has discussed her decision to openly come out as gay, citing a “fight for equality” as one of the reasons behind her public revelation.
Reid made the admission to Athlete Ally, an organization which advocates equal access, opportunity, and inclusion in sports. In the Q&A with Athlete Ally on Monday, the six-time LET winner spoke about the issues that she has faced in her career, including the fact that homosexuality is illegal in certain countries that the Tour visits.
“The Tour is a very welcoming community and it’s rare that anyone has an issue with sexuality or openly express any issues. The only problem we run into is that being gay is still illegal or frowned upon in certain countries we play in.”
The LET had previously held their season finale in the UAE, a country where homosexuality is a crime. In 2018 the event was moved to Morocco where homosexuality is also illegal and can be punished with anything from 6 months to 3 years imprisonment.
On the European Tour, there are currently three events held in Dubai, and one in Qatar, where homosexuality is also illegal. The Tour revealed this year that Saudi Arabia would be hosting a new tournament in 2019, a move which has courted plenty of controversy due to the countries number of human rights issues.
The 31-year-old also commented on her consciousness of a particular “culture around the sport,” which has prevented her from being open about her sexuality in the past.
“There are also a lot of male-dominated sponsors that are looking for certain types of players, so that’s why I have felt I can’t be quite as open as I would like to be when it comes to my personal life.
“The only issues I have had is when I have taken my girlfriend with me to dinners or awards, and I’m very conscious how I introduce her depending on the environment I’m in, because of the culture around the sport and the assumption that the sponsors would want to keep that part of my life quiet.”
As an Athlete Ally ambassador, Reid hopes that she can make the sport more open and inclusive, stressing how important it is to her “to always fight for equality.” While the Englishwoman also encouraged others struggling with their identity to be open and proud of who they are.
“I protected my sexuality for a long time because I thought I had to in order to help my career and to get more sponsors. But then I started to wonder why these companies would want to sponsor me and have me represent them if I can’t be my authentic self. There is only one of you in the world and you have one life, so be the best version of yourself and be proud of who you are.”
Reid is the second golf professional to come out as gay in recent months. In September, Tadd Fujikawa became the first male pro to do so.
In our forums, one user is wondering how many birdies other players have had in a round while still failing to break par. @Lalan45, unfortunately, asked the question after a unique experience of their own.
They wrote:
“Today I managed 8 birdies but still shot even par, could have been a round to remember! What’s the most birdies you’ve made in a round and still didn’t break par?”
Our members in the forum shared their own experiences with successful rounds that still resulted in a score over par. Here are a few posts from the thread, but make sure to check out the entire discussion and have your say at the link below.
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In our forums, one user is asking for thoughts on the best stock shafts offered in 2026. Stock shafts are the shafts included with a club when it’s purchased from retailers or OEMs.
@DTorres asked:
The last couple years has seen a lot of updates and additions to no upcharge stock shafts, which do you think is the best offering in 2026?
Im a bit of a shaft nerd and recently during my Members Testing with the Callaway Quantum Triple Diamond I found the updated Project X Denali Frost Black to be a fantastic stock shaft. I absolutely did not mesh well with the original Denali. Just curious what other people think are the current best Stock shaft offerings out with new models and stock Ventus options and LinQ options popping up here and there.
We were given the option for any stock shafts for our members review. I went with the 70g Black Frost 6.5 because it’s a shaft I don’t have, it’s an updated version of the original Denali and hear little about. I typically use a Diamana WB, GD VF or a HOF Raptor. I’m not saying it was neck and neck with any of those but it was a pleasant surprise I’m not accustomed to in stock shaft offerings.
Our members in the forum have been offering up their own thoughts on the best stock shafts available in 2026. Here are a few posts from the thread, but make sure to check out the entire discussion and have your say at the link below.
- rsballer10: “IMO – MCA Ka’ili White Darkwave, Tensei 1k Black/white, UST Lin-Q White. People are free to spend their money however they see fit, but for me personally the shaft catalogs these days have enough options that I don’t see the value of a $400 upcharge. I have never had a problem finding a no upcharge shaft that fits the bend profile and weight that I need. Whether the paint job is good enough or not is above my pay scale.”
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A reminder from your friends at GolfWRX: Father’s Day is June 21. And as we do every year, we’re rounding up the best gifts for dad.
As we say every year, there’s no better golf-related Father’s Day gift than a round of golf with pops. Be it a country club or your favorite muni, take the time to get together to play 18 if you can.
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Dave
Dec 20, 2018 at 8:38 pm
She’s calling for much more than openness in golf. She wants other countries/cultures to change. That’s a tall order. She should be able to be who she is where the tour takes her. And, I don’t blame her. Women are very nice…
Ted
Dec 17, 2018 at 3:15 pm
I just want to see great golf. Swing how you like.
A. Commoner
Dec 15, 2018 at 8:38 pm
Same old claptrap over and over. Today it seems as though ‘self disclosure’ is regarded as a great virtue by those doing the yapping. The motivation/causation behind this public ‘revealing behavior’ is not something one is encouraged to discuss. Suffice it to say many people are tired of it.
CaoNiMa
Dec 13, 2018 at 2:15 am
Phew I thought this was going to be about equality of Tour purses, and I’m glad it’s not, because I was going to say that she is totally deluded if that’s what she wants, when hardly anybody shows up to the LPGA events, how does she expect any purses to go up when the admission receipts at the ladies events can’t even make up for the cost of putting up the events at many of them. the sponsors aren’t going to shell out more for the poor return
Dave
Dec 20, 2018 at 8:31 pm
Uh…well, it wasn’t about that, so…(?)
Bert Gwaltney
Dec 12, 2018 at 7:51 pm
It’s OK, it’s her choice, not sure of her reasoning, but I do have a question. Will she play in events that are held in these countries? Even take her girlfriend to dinner there? I hope not.
Of course Rory had no problems in supporting tournaments in Dubai, will the European Tour continue to hold events in countries that are so discriminatory? Yes, of course they will, follow the money.
Speedy
Dec 12, 2018 at 5:41 pm
Good on Mel. Maybe more active players in all professional sports will feel secure enough to follow her lead.
DB
Dec 12, 2018 at 1:30 pm
LOL at “I protected my sexuality for a long time because I thought I had to in order to help my career and to get more sponsors.”
Does she live in the modern world? Has she ever seen commercials before? Major corporations are fully on board with the poz and they will happily plaster her all over commercials to signal just how woke and virtuous they are.
Jamie
Dec 12, 2018 at 11:24 am
The British multitiered system of libtardation enabling false paradigms. Screw the “fight for equality” myth. This has nothing to do with equality. This is a publicity stunt. In September 2015, Reid told ESPN that her life “was a mess … I wasn’t coping, I was rebelling. I was spending time with people who partied. I was hitting the self-destruct button. I was with a lot of people, but I was lonely”. So glad to be an American where we have equal protection under the law and freedom of association.
Scheiss
Dec 12, 2018 at 11:10 am
Well this was no surprise.
Johnny Penso
Dec 12, 2018 at 10:28 am
In the west nobody really cares. The Middle East is stuck in the dark ages, well the Arab countries at least, Israel is no problem.
Gun Violent
Dec 12, 2018 at 11:02 am
Racist.
https://www.reddit.com/r/badhistory/comments/1apq4m/the_hole_left_by_the_christian_dark_ages_graph/
Gunter Eisenberg
Dec 12, 2018 at 9:47 am
You know when society has accepted equality and rights for gay people when nobody cares when they come out of the closet.
Jamie
Dec 12, 2018 at 11:34 am
Screw special rights for anyone. In America we have equal protection laws and freedom of association. Now in dark ages places like England with dark ages institutions like royalty, I have no idea and don’t really care.