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How stoic philosophy can improve your golf game and life

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Learning and applying stoic philosophy can undoubtedly improve your performance on the golf course. More importantly, it can help with life off of the golf course. As they say, the sport of golf can be a reflection of life.

So what is Stoicism? It’s simply learning what you can and cannot control. Stoics believe we only truly have control over our mind. This entails the choices we make and the actions and responses we take when faced with adversity.

There are three main parts to stoic philosophy. Control your perceptions, direct your actions properly and accept what’s outside your control. We will examine a few quotes from Stoic philosophy and how they can be applied to golf.

“Externals I cannot control but the choices I make in regard to them I do control. Where will I find good and bad? In me, in my choices.” – EPICTETUS

The one thing we do have control over on the golf course is our mind. Not where the ball goes, the bounces we get, or the conflicts we are faced with that day, but rather how we respond to the those conflicts. Our mindset and how we respond to the good and bad of the round is just as important as your swing that day. Start by becoming aware of your thoughts and actions during a round and determining if they are beneficial.

“Your mind will take the shape of what you frequently hold in thought, for the human spirit is colored by such impressions.” – Marcus Aurelius

We eventually become what we think of ourselves on the golf course. Are your telling yourself you are a bad putter? Well you will be. Telling yourself you aren’t good enough to break 80? Well you won’t be. Start changing your story on the golf course. Write down a few things in your notes after a round that you did well on the course. This can include the feeling of a good drive or a great up and down for par. Note taking can change your golfing story.

“Associate with people who are likely to improve you” – Seneca

Want an easy way to get better on the course and see what you need to do to improve? Start playing with better players. Also, don’t play with people with poor outlooks in golf and life. By simply paying attention you can see how certain shots are played or how bad starts to a round can go the other direction or grinded out over 18 holes. This as an easy way to elevate your game and break you out of your comfort zone.

“When you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive, to think and to enjoy.” – Marcus Aurelius

Lastly, at the end of the day you are out on a golf course. Feel gratitude towards getting to be out there in the first place. There is no shot bad enough to ruin your round and or day. Conversely, on the other end of the spectrum, playing well doesn’t change who you are. By just becoming aware of these concepts can improve your game this year and hopefully time spent on the course.

Work Cited: Ryan Holiday “The Daily Stoic”, Karl Morris “The Mindfactor Course”

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Kelvin is a Class A PGA golf professional in San Francisco, California. He teaches and has taught at some of the top golf clubs in the Bay Area, including the Olympic Club and Sonoma Golf Club. He is TPI certified, and a certified Callaway and Titleist club fitter. Kelvin has sought advice and learned under several of the top instructors in the game, including Alex Murray and Scott Hamilton. To schedule a lesson, please call 818.359.0352 Online lessons also available at www.kelleygolf.com

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This past Monday, I played in the U.S. Amateur local qualifier at Rock Creek Country Club in Portland, Oregon. A full tee sheet from 7:30 a.m. to 1:55 p.m., the top 11 scores would make it to the U.S. Amateur final qualifying.

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Getting to the highlight of the round on the par five 17th, a drive up the left side and 212 yards left to the front hole location. I took out a 5-iron with plans of middle of the green. The ball ended up 8 feet left of the hole, pin high. A slight downhill putt dropped in for an eagle 3 on the 17th. With the cut line looking to be anywhere from -2 to even par. This was the boost I had been waiting for all day.

With making par from the trees on 18, it was time to wait for a potential playoff with a posted score of one under par 71.

Three hours later, it was playoff time. 8 players for 6 spots. I made par on the playoff hole, which was good enough to advance to the U.S. Amateur final qualifying in July. USGA qualifiers sure deliver on all of the emotions in golf!

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